Ode to my dear obsession with Cassanova...

"The Resolution" - Jacks Maniquin

Ok, before I get into a long rant I have to say:
OMG! OMG! OMG! I love the preview for the new twilight trailer! HOTTIE EDWARD CULLEN!!!!!!

Ok, onto better news.

So I wasn't planning on posting anything about this matter, but I happened to be reading Bella's blog and she mentioned that I would probably explain the whole situation. So in her honor, I will post.

For the past couple weeks Bella and Cassanova have been emailing. This is a pair that I wish [and still think] should date.

A) because then they'd be the real life Peyton/Caleb

and

B) because even though people think that she's to good for him, I think that she and him would be good together. I mean, she obviously like[d] him and I think that whatever makes her happy is fine with me. [Unless of course it's some bloodsucking leech who I need to incinerate with my awesome Phoenix powers].

There is a reason that we call him "Cassanova". He is the typical high school player. The guy who's longest relationship has been 1 week [that's 5 days, not 7] and dates all the stupid blonde bimbos just so he can stare at her boobs and asks the tall girls to dances so when they slow dance his face will be in her chest [God, the guys need to get a life!].

Well, there's another side to Cassanova that only Bella sees. The sweet, romance movie/song lover who's actually very sweet and not perverted [most of the time]. The guy who has a band and writes songs, plays the guitar and could possible be a poetic artist.

That's the guy I want her to date. That's the kind of guy she deserves.

Now, in a way, this relates to my book as well. Since Cassanova is Caleb, it only makes since that it would be the same vice versa.

Well, as Bella and Cassanova were "emailing" he makes a pervy comment about "him only aloud to have sex at the girl's houses" which implies that he isn't a virgin. This scares the living crap out of Bella, who then emails me with her long rant about how she shouldn't like him and how she is apparently "done" [for now].

Well, as the author of The Flawed Utopia, I would've eventually gotten the comment of "Now he isn't anything like Caleb, because Caleb would never have sex before marriage".

*cough cough*

Caleb isn't a virgin. He never was as far as I planned and I just guessed that the real life Cassanova wasn't either. So now Bella's all mad at me because she doesn't understand why I still think that they should be together.

Here is why, just so she understands.

1) You can't judge a guy just because of his action[s]. He's a guy, they have different morals then girls do. That's why we don't have a name for Male {whores, sluts, etc.} because to them, it's ok to have sex before marriage and it means nothing. They're [this is very sexist] aloud to do it without being reprimanded. It's like a trophy to them, trying to see who can 'do' the most girls.

That's a horrible way of putting it, but that's the truth baby.

2) We do know that there is a softer side to him Belle. He still is the guy who likes romance movies and lovey-dovey songs. He's not always a perverted retard called "a man".

I have to go to bed now.

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